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On the Love of Writing, Mean Girls, and #romfail

8/27/2009

 
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There has been much opinion expressed recently on the appropriateness of certain individuals and groups that entertain themselves by tearing apart the works of their fellow writers.  Knock on wood, my stories have (as far as I know) not fallen victim to such attacks, but I do have fellow author friends whose works have.  This puts me in an interesting position, allowing me a perspective that, I believe, lies squarely between most of the opinions thus far expressed.

 I do not have any firsthand experience with the sites in question, as I refuse to buy into the drama, but the implied level of maliciousness regularly expressed by followers of such groups leads me to believe that there are personal matters behind those behaviors.  Everyone is entitled to his/her opinion.  Who hasn’t disliked—or even hated—a book?  However, does one person’s dissatisfaction with a particular work merit such cruelty?  Might there be a more productive way of offering harsh critique?  Moreover, is a novice or self-published writer really the best person to be critically reviewing others’ published works?  Just because a person has an opinion on something, does that make the person an authority on the matter?  For example, I love to cook, and I cook well, but that does not make me a gourmet food critic.  Is anyone who belongs to #romfail or any similar group actually formally educated in literary theory, let alone remotely qualified to do what they are doing?  What degrees do these people hold?  How many books have they published, beyond vanity presses and self-publishing houses?

Or do they just have opinions—uneducated, demeaning, vicious opinions?

Let’s assume that the works in question do contain good examples of bad writing.  No one is perfect, and even the best of writers sometimes have an off day.  Even more, no one but the author and his/her editor knows just how much of a particular problem in a book is the result of poor editing.  Granted, it is an authors’ responsibility to ensure his/her publishing house employs good editors; for the novice author, this problem is not always as simple to remedy as it would seem.  Is it acceptable behavior to treat an author with such disrespect and nastiness, simply for having a book that was poorly edited?  Is it the intent to embarrass the author (and/or his/her publisher) out of the industry?  If so, do the offending individuals actually believe they are doing anything beyond upsetting and alienating their peers?

On a final note, I would love to know what kinds of reviews these “mean girls” are receiving for their books.  I would like to know how these people would feel if it were their books being offered up for sacrifice, and just how much fun it would still be if it were they who suffered the humility and heartache over having one of their beloved books torn apart—with quotes taken out of context—for all the world to see.

Some people need to grow a soul; please don’t feed their emptiness.  These people are mean for the sake of being mean and deserved to be ignored.  Enough said.

Please check out these blogs, which inspired me to write this post:

http://culinarycarnivale.blogspot.com/2009/08/mean-girls-of-romfail.html
http://nlberger13.blogspot.com/2009/08/how-i-spend-most-friday-nights.html
http://mrsgiggles00.livejournal.com/25967.html

Keri link
8/28/2009 12:30:26 am

I totally know what you mean about a crappy editor! I know someone that had a book published and it was full of tyos and nonsensical sentences that I KNOW she would never have let stand. Especially since her husband proof reads everything she sends out - several times - with a fine toothed comb. But yet, there they are! It's unfortunate that some people don't understand that criticism can be helpful when given in a helpful way, but just as hurtful on the opposite end of the spectrum. Nice post!

Shelley
8/28/2009 09:50:20 am

There are a lot of bad books out there, especially in e-publishing, and I think Romfail has a point. Their approach sucks, though. Do they really need to be that mean?

Reader
8/29/2009 06:15:38 am

If you don't follow #romfail, then you don't have any room for an opinion. The books chosen for #romfail deserve every laugh they get. It is a joke that they even got published. And if it is bad editors to blame, then they deserve to have that bad editing exposed.

Lisa Lane link
8/30/2009 03:12:43 am

Point taken; thanks for sharing. Still, don't you think a nicer approach might be more productive?

Sandra Cormier link
8/30/2009 03:29:34 am

Reader, a few of those books received fine reviews elsewhere. I have nothing against constructive reviews, or even biased opinions, but many comments on romfail are plucked out of midair or pulled out of the nether regions. It serves no purpose whatsoever.

Sandra Cormier, author of The Toast Bitches

Ryan Field link
9/4/2009 09:29:15 am

I saw this post on facebook and just read it. I was one of the authors who was roasted by good old Jane of DA. And two weeks later I was part of a book that won a Lambda Award. The latter balanced out the former ten times over.

I think I look at this a little differently because I've been around the publishing industry for a long time...since I was a freshman in college. And a great deal longer than Jane or anyone connected with DA. During an internship an editor once told me, "Only the amateurs stay mad." I never forgot that.

If you see two of these comments, I screwed up :)

Ryan Field link
9/4/2009 09:40:10 am


I wanted to add one more thing. When you put your work out there, there are going to be comments both good and bad. You can't please everyone.

The tons of e-mails and comments and messages I receive from the LGBT community, and other readers, have been unbelievable. They are thrilled to see a publisher like ravenous and they are thrilled to be able to find a selection that's different. I'm happy to see that so many eager readers are pleased. I answer each letter personally. And, these are people who are far removed from romfail or anyone connected to DA.


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